Planning a wedding can be a lot of hard work, but writing your vows shouldn't be. Here's where you and your intended will publicly declare your love for each other. The time you spend in crafting the words you speak is all about you. Forget about the seating arrangements, the bridesmaids' dresses, the caterer, the photographer, and all the money you've spent. As with many of the best things in life, wedding vows are absolutely free.