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Hello, Goodbye

The grand entrance is your moment to shine, to revel in the happy moment of being a newly married couple. Wow the guests with the grand entrance, but realize in a blink of an eye you will be bidding them adieu. Put some serious thought into creating a one-of-a-kind entrance and exit that your guests will always remember.

Grand Entrance

What is the grand entrance? The grand entrance is the first introduction of the bride and groom at the reception. This is generally the first order of business once the guests are in their seats. Traditionally the bride and groom and the entire wedding party are formally announced into the reception. Some couples choose to introduce only the bride and groom.

How should we be introduced at the reception? You have to take into account the formality of the wedding and what you feel comfortable with. “Mr. and Mrs. Joseph Mann” or “Amy and Joseph Mann” are both valid options. If a bride is choosing to retain her maiden name, the couple may choose to be introduced by their full individual names, such as “Amy Kennedy and Joseph Mann.” They may also be introduced by their first names only, which is typically more informal, but also an option.

Essential

While it is not a necessity, your parents will be honored if you choose to introduce them alongside the wedding party during the grand entrance. In fact, in some cultures, grandparents, godparents, and sponsors are all a part of the grand entrance.

The Send-Off

What is the send-off? It is the formal exit of the newlyweds. A formal send-off is not mandatory, but it does provide a definitive conclusion to the event. Depending on the rules of the venue, guests may shower the couples with rose petals, bubbles, or light sparklers for the exit. Another option is to have the emcee play a last dance song and gather the guests on the dance floor. At some point toward the middle of the song, the emcee cues you to exit and the guests are left to finish the dance while you head on out.

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