When it comes time to celebrate a milestone in your marriage, a vow renewal may be just the thing to do it. Vow renewals typically follow an anniversary of importance or signify the strengthening of your marriage vows after a difficult period in your relationship or life in general. Whatever the reason, it is a beautiful way to celebrate your love and recommitment to one another.

Renewals

Is there a difference between a reaffirmation and a vow renewal? The two are virtually one and the same. A vow renewal or reaffirmation is not a legal act, so there is no need to worry about licenses and legalities. If you would like to do this in a church, you will need to have it approved and sanctioned by the clergy.

Do's and Don'ts

Must there be a reason to renew our vows? You can renew your vows for whatever reason you want, although most couples do it to recognize a milestone in their relationship or a successful outcome of a particularly rough period of time.

My friend wants to throw me a shower. This seems inappropriate. Am I right, or is she? Been there, done that. You are not getting married; you are renewing your vows. Your home has been set up and there is no reason for a bridal shower. The same holds true for a bachelorette/bachelor party.

Invitations

How do I word an invitation for my vow renewal? If you are hosting the ceremony, the invitation is worded as follows.