It will happen. In time, you'll find that you're ready to help others deal with diabetes and kids. It won't be in the first few weeks; it might not even be in the first year. But when the time comes, embrace that feeling and go for it. Parents everywhere need folks like you to reach out and help them. How you do it is up to you.

Pick a Program

Whether it's the JDRF's Online Diabetes Support Team or their Bag of Hope Program (see Chapter 13 for more details), a diabetes camp program, or a local hospital support group, when you're ready to help, pick the one that feels best to you. Are you better one-on-one or organizing a large group? Do you feel more empowered helping a big cause or an individual? Do you have the time to make home visits, or do you need the flexibility of helping people online and at any hour? Answering these questions will help you pinpoint which program would suit you.

Once you've picked a type (or types) of group that is right for you, let them know you are ready to help. Ask for training, and encourage them to be honest about your ability and where you fit. Good training should be expected of any quality outreach and support program. They owe it to you before you head out to help others.

Making It Happen on Your Own

If by chance you are in one of the few places that is too far away from any type of support, consider forming your own support group/system. Most large organizations, like JDRF or the ADA, want to help even if they do not have a presence in your area. Contact the main support line of one of those groups and ask them to help you start a support program in your area.

In the end, reaching out, as uncomfortable as it may feel for some, is the best thing a parent can do. Imagine a world where everyone understands and knows what a high or a low is, a world where your child will never hear those odd comments. That world can, and does, exist.