Pump parents and patients are like revivalists: They believe they've found the Holy Grail. But like anything else in diabetes, pumping is a personal decision and in the end, it is up to you and your child to decide if it is right for you.

Why Not?

Some children and parents or caregivers prefer the routine of shots and even meal plans. While some may say you're crazy, the fact is, what works for you is what works for you. Most doctors agree that the perfect way to use a pump is with a schedule and meal plan, yet for the most part, pumpers do not follow this advice. That's because most are after the freedom, and there's nothing wrong with that. But if you like to stick to a plan and feel your child does not want change, you can just say no.

Some children just don't want something attached to their bodies.

Also, some kids have been in the routine of shots for so long, they fear change. In the end, there's no forcing this issue.

How to Say No

It won't be easy. The passion of pumpers is almost unimaginable. You may have to listen to as many silly comments from them as you've had to from people who don't know about diabetes. But if you explain that you have indeed researched it and it is not for you, any polite person should back off.

One thing not to accept is a no if you want a yes. If your medical team says you cannot put your child on a pump, demand an answer that you understand, and then search for a new team that will help you out. Pumping is personal, but today with what the world knows about kids and pumps, it should be available to everyone.