As most people probably already know, an orgasm is a sexual climax. The word orgasm is based on a Greek term meaning “to swell.” In Tantra, orgasm is seen as a divine experience. But in following the Tantric tradition of slow and leisurely lovemaking, the goal is generally to prolong orgasm as long as possible.

The Traditional View

In traditional Tantra, orgasm wasn't viewed with the obsession that it is by many people today. In fact, orgasm was often discouraged — if not outright prohibited — because it was seen as a waste of vital energy forces. Orgasm was something that was not to be done haphazardly or taken lightly. A couple who engaged in a fulfilling, spiritually rewarding lovemaking session certainly would not have been considered a failure simply because one or both partners did not achieve orgasm.

The Modern Cultural View

On the other hand, the modern sexual viewpoint is to place the utmost importance on orgasm. It is often all some people seem to focus on, almost to the point of obsession. Frankly, there's a lot of pressure to have one (mainly for women) and in some cases this can actually detract from the pleasure of the experience — thus, the popularity of “faking it.” But, as everyone can probably agree, faking it is no solution, and it really does not end up benefiting anyone.