The concept of a ritual or ceremony may invoke thoughts of formality and seriousness, but that is not necessarily the case at all. In fact, when it comes to romantic rituals, fun and spontaneity are often the primary goals. While there are numerous books and other resources that can give you ideas for enjoyable rituals, it will probably be more fun and meaningful for you to develop your own loving rituals. A ritual can be any kind of event, routine, or tradition that makes you feel sexy and more connected to your partner.