Sexy Matches: The Hot and Not-So-Hot Combinations

If you are unhappy about one of the not-so-hot combos, keep in mind you may defy the odds. Don't analyze; see where life takes you.

Virgo and Aries

Virgo is not charmed by Aries's impetuosity, and that irritates Aries. Virgo is earth and Aries is fire, and although sometimes this combination of elements can mean a good short-term time in the bedroom, in this case the planets ruled by Virgo and Aries are too contentious to light a spark. Virgo is ruled by Mercury, and Aries by Mars.

Passion between these two signs is apt to be mentally stimulating but emotionally disconnected. If you have an affair with an Aries, don't expect constancy or interest in languid times in the bedroom. Breakneck speed and variety will typify this lover, and if those are not to your liking, it would be best to find another person.

Virgo and Taurus

These two earth signs flow together. A Taurus lover calms Virgo's mental activity, and since a Virgo woman is usually a very good cook, a Taurus man is happy and eager to please her. Taurus will not get involved with Virgo's list-making and may, if she is lucky, just grab her and steer her toward more amusing and fruitful activity. It is a gift for Virgo to be able to feel first and think later.

Fact

Virgo is known as the bachelor sign. A short fling with good sex may be easier for Virgo than giving up his routine and forming a permanent relationship.

Virgo and Gemini

This combination is fun and possibly sexy, but not easy. Virgo and Gemini are both ruled by the planet Mercury. Virgo is earth and Gemini is air, and they are both mutable signs. They love communication, information, talking, all forms of oral stimulation, and anything that keeps them mentally engaged and not bored.

In the bedroom, their different natures are apparent, as Virgo is firmly located in his body's sensuality and Gemini needs to concentrate to feel. Gemini is very active mentally, and is a great fantasizer and a great talker. Virgo likes this as a preliminary, but when you get right down to having sex, Virgo likes to feel sensual and not talk.

An affair between these two is always interesting. Both signs like to learn about sex and try out new things. They would enjoy going through a sex manual or video to experiment, but for a longer, committed relationship, unless Gemini has some earth in her chart, they may create dust.

Virgo and Cancer

The elements of earth and water are sexually compatible. Virgo and Cancer go well together, theoretically. Virgo likes the sincerity and sensitivity of a Cancer man, and revels in his emotional expression. She feels wanted and appreciated because he is so ardent.

Zone

Both Virgo and Cancer love to kiss and caress the belly.

On the other hand, the Cancer man may be shy about sex and slow to lead, and it is difficult for Virgo to initiate sex. She feels it is not polite and puts her in an insecure position. If these two lovers get together as friends first, then a sexual relationship is more likely.

Once in the bedroom, the Moon child's sensitive skin and light touch is a turn-on for Virgo. She must curb any tendency to criticize or rate Cancerian techniques, or the success or failure of lovemaking. Cancer will be out the door and never return.

Virgo and Leo

Mercury and the Sun, the respective ruling planets in this combination, make these two a fairly hot combo. These two can be physically very compatible even though their personalities are quite different. Virgo is content to be the backstage supporter for Leo's more dramatic personality and share his sensual nature with Leo's fiery temperament. Virgo needs a little zip in his life, as frequently he can become a slave to routine and lists of dos and don'ts. He is smitten with Leo because she always looks good, is generous, and pays absolutely no attention to the details that can inhibit Virgo. Long- or short-term, these two signs have a lot to share.

Virgo and Virgo

Earth and earth is a sexy combination. Lovers between these two signs understand each other's sensual needs non-verbally. This ability helps both Virgos get into their bodies and out of their heads, and curtails the tendency to critique. Virgo is a sign of service, and this pair loves to switch roles in serving and being served, which can apply to oral sex as well as regular sex. They also enjoy a similar rhythm and are likely to be in the mood at the same time. Morning is probably the best time for Virgos to enjoy each other.

Virgo and Libra

Virgo and Libra are next-door-neighbor signs. Their elements, earth and air, are different, but sexual chemistry can work here because both signs believe discretion and good taste are very important. Virgo loves the romantic Libran, the care she takes in arranging dates, and the restaurants she chooses. Also, in the bedroom there will be no extreme surprises between Virgo and Libra. Virgo's sensuality is good for Libra, who tends to get wrapped up in ideas about sex, plus Virgo's sensuality allows Libra to delight in the body.

Virgo and Scorpio

Although you may not think that Virgo can handle Scorpio's intensity, this combination can be hot because both signs are in compatible elements: earth and water. Virgo is not an extreme sign in terms of passion, but her rooted sensuality and ability to adapt makes her a sexy partner with a Scorpio man. This is a fertile combination and good for an affair or a committed relationship.

Alert

For Scorpio, Virgo should use her virgin mystique. The allure of deflowering — even if it is not the truth — is a great turn-on for a Scorpio man.

Virgo will have to ignore Scorpio's silent treatment when things are not going well. Scorpio tends to go underground to recoup his energies, and Virgo will enjoy trying to perk him up, even though she might not be successful.

Oral pleasure is good between these two, as Scorpio loves all sensation, and the idea of being slightly wicked appeals to Virgo. One part of the attraction between the two signs is that a Virgo woman gets to relax her goody-two-shoes personality and play in the presence of Scorpio's passionate creativity.

Virgo and Sagittarius

There is attraction here, but controversy in rhythms. Sagittarian men are rambling guys, and their tendency to energetically pursue their own pleasures at their own tempo puts a Virgo lady in a tizzy.

A Sagittarius man is alluring to a Virgo woman because he is so different. Virgo is attracted to Sag because he is big-hearted and generous and almost entirely uninterested in the details that Virgo uses to order her world. Both signs are mutable, that is, they are able to change and adapt.

When the Sagittarius's fire burns for Virgo, she will not resist because he is so charming. He makes her laugh and never puts her down for her fastidiousness. In the bedroom, Virgo will be appreciated by Sag even if it only lasts for a time. The thighs and legs are the areas to concentrate on. Sag will definitely be the leader here.

Virgo and Capricorn

This is a serious combination, with a lot of comfort between the two people. Both are earth signs and very comfortable with sensuality. They have a highly tuned sense of touch. Both signs are very responsible and will not tend toward promiscuity.

This is a combo for a long relationship rather than a short affair because the two signs at first may come into conflict over the more negative aspects of each other's sexual personality: Capricorn worries and Virgo criticizes. If they can hit the sheets immediately and bypass these parts of their characters, the relationship will be launched and have room to grow.

Virgo and Aquarius

Astrologically speaking, the relationship between Virgo and Aquarius is called inconjunct, and this is a good way to describe the relationship between the two signs. They don't quite meet, but they interest each other because each is exotic to the other. Virgo says, “How can you be so unconventional? Don't you care what people think?” Aquarius says: “How can you be so conventional? Don't you like people thinking you are unique?”

In the bedroom these two attitudes can definitely be sexy, as both signs behave differently in private. A Virgo woman loves the idea of straightening up her Aquarius lover, and Aquarius loves challenging Virgo's sense of orderliness. If both signs can play with each other, it will be a good affair. In a longer relationship, they might irritate each other too much.

Zone

Virgo rules the intestines, and so far no one has succeeded in making that a particularly erogenous zone. For best results, try the back of the neck.

Virgo and Pisces

Opposite signs in compatible elements make for good times in bed, life, friendship, and long-term relationships. Dreamy Pisces complements Virgo's earthy sensuality because Pisces floats on her feelings and is very capable of putting the world away and retreating into a world of sense and delight. Virgo loves to join her in this world because it renews him.

Tickling and giving hickeys in discreet places are great ways of beginning for Virgo and Pisces. Concentrate on Pisces's toes, and you will embark on a beautiful voyage. Both signs love scented baths.

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