Sex Planets: Mars and Venus
To learn more about yourself and your partner, figure out in which sign his or her Venus and Mars is located. This information will add pizzazz to everything you have learned about your lover's Sun sign.
Mars in Virgo
Virgo's scope and interests are a little narrow for Mars's energy. Mars energy is fiery, and when in Virgo, it is difficult to corral that fire into the kind of organization and order that Virgo loves. Sex is inherently the province of Mars, so when a person has this signature or if your lover has this position, you know right away that lovemaking cannot be random or without care for details. There will be lots of sexy verbal description and energy in the way Mars in Virgo speaks.
A Virgo man would love to have a gift book like The Joy of Sex (after you get to know him). The pictures will stimulate him visually, and having all that sexual information organized and available gives him plenty of ideas to work on.
Usually Virgo with this placement enjoys sensuality almost more than sex itself. He is not shy, but the beauty of a shoulder or a delicately shaped earlobe catches him up, and he pauses to caress this part of his lover's body.
If you want to please your Mars in Virgo lover, make sure everything runs smoothly and that there are no bumps or sudden surprises. Mars in Virgo can get off track easily.
Venus in Virgo
Venus is not considered well-placed in Virgo. The easy, pleasure-loving nature of Venus goes against the grain of fastidious, organized Virgo. In the bedroom, Venus in Virgo needs to remember one maxim: Feel first, think later.
Start with a massage, and avoid any lengthy discussions of who is going to do what, and how. The body responds to touch, and the scent of orange water or lemon blossom will help things develop. A lightly scented feminine spray discreetly applied would be something that makes Venus in Virgo feel sexy. Men with this placement will also like scented products for intimate areas of the body.
There is a formal feeling to Venus in Virgo. She enjoys dressing well in the muted colors of blue, white, black, and ivory, but her undergarments will rarely be black. If you are pursuing a person with this placement, emphasize rhythmic and steady physical contact. Kisses that are moist and not too wet will be most successful.