Sexy Matches: The Hot and Not-So-Hot Combinations

If you are unhappy about one of the not-so-hot combos listed here, keep in mind you may defy the odds. Trust yourself and see where life takes you.

Taurus and Aries

These two signs go about life in very different ways, but the combination of the two can be exciting. Aries fuels Taurus's fires because of his endearing charm and enthusiasm.

When Aries suggests that they duck into a convenient closet for a quickie, somehow Taurus's reticence disappears because Aries is so naively appealing. This situation is stimulating for Taurus and confirms to Aries that he has the pizzazz he always knew he had. Let's call this a shipboard affair: it lasts for a time and then remains as a fabulous memory.

Zone

E-zones are the hair and forehead. Aries loves to have his whole head and face caressed. And Taurus, as you know, goes nuts for the ears and throat.

Taurus and Taurus

Good, passionate, trustworthy, dependable, and utterly comfortable. This is an easy combination for all sorts of connections. Because both people are attuned to their senses, they mirror each other's desire without a lot of unnecessary preliminaries. Two Tauruses are like soft flannel shirts; they get better with age.

If you both get into a rut or feel bored, try wearing edible underwear — and make it a surprise which one of you wears it.

Taurus and Gemini

Taurus and Gemini are fun together, but are not cut from the same cloth. Their elements, earth and air, do not sync up. The mental delight Gemini takes in learning about everything strikes Taurus as busywork that does not leave enough time for sensual play and love. This combo is fine for a one-night thrill but usually lacks staying power. The one point where Gemini and Taurus meet would be all connections with the mouth. Both signs are oral — kissing, sucking, or nipping all over the body is a satisfying way to explore and feel pleasure for both signs.

Taurus and Cancer

These two signs, ruled by Venus and the Moon respectively, have a lot to give each other in sex and love. They share a slower rhythm and can feel lazy and sensual together. Cancer's sensitive tummy is a place Taurus loves to pay attention to, so both signs are content. Taurus and Cancer are hard-wired for secure relationships, so this usually will not be a combination that leads only to a quick affair.

Also, there will not be much controversy over where to make love: it will be home or some other comfortable, secure spot. A motel or any place that feels transient will inhibit both lovers. Both Cancer and Taurus need to be in familiar surroundings to unleash their sexual, affectionate natures. The Cancerian may prove to be too emotional and fluid for Taurus sometimes, but certainly the two signs can enjoy each other's giving natures.

Taurus and Leo

Both these signs are fixed, but in different elements. They usually do not go together well for relationships, but at an office party, when people have had too many beers, one glance could send these two people into a private room for unexpected sex. Taurus will be surprised. Leo will feel she has had contact with a sensual part of her nature that she didn't know about before, and the whole affair will pass away and remain a delightful memory. This is a quick contact, but while the affair is happening, both signs like particular attention paid to the small of the back.

Essential

A great gift for a Taurus with whom you would like to have a more intimate relationship is a soft scarf in yellow or turquoise.

Taurus and Virgo

Earth to earth is a harmonious and easy connection. Virgo, however, being ruled by Mercury, can be too demanding and perfectionistic for laid-back Taurus. Taurus does not react well to specific requests, such as something listed in a sex manual. If Taurus can get Virgo in the mood, then sex will be satisfying, and both signs will share affection and good lovemaking.

This is not an overwhelmingly passionate combination because there is not as much aggression when these signs get together, as with other signs. Taurus and Virgo also both meet in the delights of good, healthy food. Remember those dining rooms with no door handles!

Taurus and Libra

Although the elements of earth and air are usually not an immediate turn-on, these signs share Venus as their ruler and make a good duo. Not only will both lovers have good sexual chemistry, but also they will have many tastes and activities in common. They share a love of romance and enjoy candlelit dinners and long walks on the beach or in the woods.

Sex between Taurus and Libra tends to be discreet. Neither of these signs is interested in exhibitionism or anything extreme. Also, both Taurus and Libra want to have enough time when they get together. A date that is rushed and without preliminaries is not satisfying to either sign.

The best turn-on for both signs is going out somewhere elegant and then retiring to the bedroom. As Libra and Taurus share so many other sensibilities, a Libra man may be happy to have his Taurus lady in the dominant position.

Essential

The neck and throat area is an especially sensitive one for Taurus. Taurus needs to cover her neck against the cold, but when she unwraps her scarf and exposes a vulnerable spot, she wants it kissed and caressed.

Taurus and Scorpio

This is a very frequent combination as Taurus and Scorpio are opposite signs, and opposites attract. With these two powerhouse and willful signs, there is a lot of sexual chemistry. A Scorpio man's intense desire finds a soothing partner in Taurus's lusty sensuality. Scorpio is a powerhouse sign also and will express his sexuality with great strength and passion.

Whatever fantasies are in the recesses of either person's mind can come to fruition with this combination. If Scorpio feels he wants to tie Taurus to a chair and play a love scene with all sorts of scary innuendos, Taurus will go along with it because she knows that her allure and earthy instincts will always know when enough is enough. Scorpio is a hard sign to trust, but Taurus does because they both have formidable strength and can alternate who is the dominant partner.

Taurus and Sagittarius

This combination is not usually satisfying for either the long or short term. Taurus is a fixed sign, and Sagittarius is a mutable sign. The mutable signs are changeable and hard to pin down. This conflict, together with the lack of harmony in the elements, makes the Bull and the Archer less than compatible sexually. Sagittarius is too busy and too freedom-loving to make Taurus feel comfortable.

Also, Sagittarius likes a variety of settings and is easily bored with the regular and comfortable. If a Sagittarius has caught your eye, you will have fun only if you are willing to be as flexible as you can manage.

Essential

Remember that all earth signs love tactile stimulation. With Taurus, Virgo, and Capricorn, bring out the bear rug, mink coat, and faux-fur comforter.

Taurus and Capricorn

The earthy similarity between these two signs means that they naturally speak the same language and have an easy familiarity. There is good potential for lust here. Both will enjoy the natural smells of the other's body. The armpits (unshaved) are a turn-on.

Taurus's cuddliness soothes the Capricorn tendency to bear the weight of the world on his shoulders. A back rub leading to kisses to the shoulders will get both the Bull and the Goat aroused. Tickling is another way to begin, and will bring out the best in each sign.

Taurus and Aquarius

This combination is not so hot. Earth and air are the two elements, and although both signs are fixed, Aquarius is too mental and eccentric for Taurus. Taurus also tends to be possessive, and Aquarius has lots of friends and needs to feel able to experiment with all of them, perhaps simultaneously. If these two do get together, Taurus will have to be the more flexible of the pair. Aquarius can be a law unto himself.

Taurus and Pisces

Venus and Neptune are the two planets ruling each of these signs. Theirs is a dreamy combination, with great sensuality and tender sex. Pisces loves anything that enhances the senses such as wine, scent, and candles. Taurus also gravitates to sensual stimulants.

Retreating to an underground lair with black sheets and a waterbed would be this couple's idea of heaven for a time. Pisces's big toe may be an unexpected erogenous zone. When sex is over, though, Taurus may, from time to time, be irritated by Pisces' dreamy and slippery character, but there is an opportunity between the two for the short- and long-term relationships.

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