Sexy Matches: The Hot and Not-So-Hot Combinations

Libra, the sign of relationships, is passionately interested in having the right lover where there is a possibility for a long-term run. Sometimes this is a Libran delusion, as one knows that a particular guy or girl is only a fling, but somehow the Libra still imagines that each fling could last forever.

When you read these combinations, use your mind to understand that a not-so-hot combo may be irresistible and a delightful experience. Go ahead and see what happens; Libra is not famous for self-discipline.

Libra and Aries

The opposite signs in air and fire, respectively, attract each other and have a tempestuous relationship. A bonfire may be a better word. Aries is the “me first” sign, and Libra, the “after you” sign. This conflict is hot in the bedroom but is wearing on the nerves for the long term.

Emphasize straight physical contact while Libra provides the romantic touches. She will have to do it because Aries is usually too much in a hurry. The best part of this combination is that it is laughter-filled. Where there are jokes and giggles, good sex is not far away.

Libra and Taurus

Venus is the ruler of both these signs, but their elements are different: air and earth. This is a steady, sensual, languid, solid, hot duo. The connection is good for a flirt or a long-term partnership. Libra thrills to Taurus's romantic side.

The Libra may be impatient with Taurus's pace, which is a bit slower than Libra's, but the physical relationship works because both signs share similar sensibilities. They are calmed by eating sweets, and sharing these in bed will lead to other pleasures. Oral sex is a good place to start for both signs, but the main course is the chief attraction.

Libra and Gemini

An affair between this airy combination could be more fun than a barrel of monkeys. Both signs are mentally oriented, so their particular brand of sexual pleasure should be called exciting, rather than lusty. Libra will enjoy Gemini's try-anything approach, and take a peek at activities that she may lack in her own sexual repertoire. She will tire of the speed with which Gemini changes his mind.

Libra has a hard enough time making a decision, so when Gemini in the sack starts one way, then goes another, Libra may be a beat behind. The positive aspect of this duo is that they will be able to communicate about their desires and come to a satisfying compromise.

Libra and Cancer

Venus and the Moon are the ruling planets, and the elements are air and water in this hot and inspired combo. Traditionally, this combo is called a square astrological relationship and is not known for ease. However, both signs are so tuned in to picking up other people's vibes that when they are on the same frequency they create a beautiful bubble of sexual contentment.

Libra loves pleasing Cancer because she delights in creating a homey atmosphere that makes him feel comfortable and passionate. Cancer is a sign that understands and is sentimental about courtship, and Libra laps this up.

Cancer's emotional moodiness can be too much for Libra sometimes as she tries to balance his tidal waves of feeling, but if she doesn't think too much she can have a very good time. In this duo, emphasize kissing the breasts and tummy.

Libra and Leo

What an opportunity for this air and fire combo! Both signs like to socialize and to show off in public. Looking good and receiving confirmation that you look good is a prime aphrodisiac for L and L.

Zone

Both Libra and Leo are sensitive in the lower back. Caress the hollow, and the sexual engines will start roaring.

Exhibitionistic sex is usually not an option with Libra, so Leo's more daring temperament will have to be satisfied with a private showing at home or a more secluded place, but there is ample room for fun and games here. Choose day-light dates, perhaps around three in the afternoon, and Leo and Libra will both be happy.

Libra women like the dominant, king-of-the-jungle side of Leo. If he becomes a kitten instead, she may pass on future dates.

Libra and Virgo

This air-and-earth combination can be too fussy to have a good time between the sheets. Libra flits around, trying to get the right romantic mood, and Virgo obsesses about striving for perfection. There's too much planning and not enough sensual touching. The signs are next-door neighbors but may not get to spark each other physically. There is appreciation and admiration but not enough creative tension to make a hot combo.

Libra and Libra

The duo of these romantic signs is a delight for everyone around them. Between themselves they enjoy each other's company, know how to please the other, and are a good couple if they allow the man to exhibit his female side, and the woman, her masculine side. This in no way means cross-dressing or obvious gender role reversal. That is too outré for most Librans.

This couple will decide “Okay, let's go to bed together,” have a great time, and then wonder if they made the right decision. But they will be happy to make the same decision again and again. The sheer beauty of both partners will delight them for a long time. Parting could be the most difficult decision they make, so they may stay together just so no one's feelings get hurt.

Libra and Scorpio

This can be a sexy combination, but slightly off balance for Libra. Libra's ruler is Venus, and Scorpio's ruler in ancient astrology was Mars. Venus and Mars delineate the primal male and female polarity necessary for sex. But Libra fears to dive into Scorpio's deep waters and can be turned off by her intensity. Libra is not strong enough to take Scorpio's emotional zingers and does not take pleasure in the Scorpion's sting. For a short trip through a darker world than Libra usually inhabits, this could be a hot combo, but it doesn't satisfy either sign or last long.

Libra and Sagittarius

Venus and Jupiter are the ruling planets here, and the sheer lucky and exuberant nature of both signs makes this a buoyant and hot tryst. Libra loves the full-frontal approach that Sag is known for. Libra laughs when Sag is clumsy, even in bed, because he laughs too.

This is a fun affair but has one drawback: the famous Sagittarian frankness is too much for Libra. She doesn't want a candid opinion on anything. If these two want to enjoy themselves, they must declare a moratorium on conversing in bed. Cooing, humming, and keeping their mouths filled with various body parts will be much more successful than talking.

Libra and Capricorn

Both signs are cardinal leadership signs, but in inharmonious elements, air and earth. The combination is too serious to satisfy either sign. Libra likes varied, mental, light connections, and Capricorn lusty, sensual ones. They cramp each other's styles, and in the bedroom there is too much effort for too little pleasure. Libra does enjoy Capricorn's good taste and solidity, plus his bank account may be a turn-on, but for physical satisfaction these two might need to look elsewhere.

Libra and Aquarius

Essential

A gift between Libra and Aquarians could be anything with a rainbow motif. Both signs love the colors of the rainbow. Libra, if you are pursuing an Aquarius, throw in some conversation about the colors of each chakra, and your seduction is accomplished.

These are both air signs with exciting ruling planets: Venus and Uranus. Even though the elements are compatible, Libra cannot accept Aquarian eccentricity and abruptness. She also does not participate in the all-friends-invited Aquarian idea of sexual freedom. These two communicate well but exist in different universes.

Sexually, if the Aquarian is a woman and dominates a Libra man, and the two people are cool with this relationship, then these air signs may have a compatible, airy sexual relationship.

Libra and Pisces

Venus and Neptune are probably one of the dreamiest combinations of the zodiac. Sex between them is not hot and spicy; it is more lukewarm and sweet, like warm pudding. Pisces is tender and refined, and Libra always responds well to a delicate touch.

However, remember that Libra women have some masculine qualities, and vice versa for the men. Libra and Pisces satisfy only one part of Libra's nature. They can escape together into a hazy, happy world, but Libra doesn't want to stay there too long: it could be bad for the complexion and waistline.

After a few dates, Pisces's phlegmatic nature and Libra's indecision can wear on these two.

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