Sexy Matches: The Hot and Not-So-Hot Combinations

Gemini is generally a sexy sign because she is so experimental. There are better combinations than others, but if your combo isn't listed as hot, don't despair. A relationship with a Gemini is probably the most changeable of the zodiac. Read the following combinations to maximize pleasure and minimize strife.

Gemini and Aries

These two fan each other's flames as Gemini's element, air, feeds Aries's element, fire. There may be ferocious discussions about what turns them both on, and whispered words about the best technique, but when it comes down to getting physical, these two signs like a quick date, and then another and another.

Their rhythms are in sync. Gemini can't stand to be bored, and Aries can't stand to wait. Expect lots of oral pleasure and lots of jokes. Laughing and tickling might be all the preliminaries these two hot signs need.

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Yoga, singing, or a breathing practice on a consistent basis is a good way to keep Gemini's nervous system in good sexual form. When she is overstimulated, she can't concentrate on any one thing. Sometimes a Gemini woman's own changeability makes her dizzy.

Gemini and Taurus

The next-door-neighbor signs of Gemini and Taurus have different elements, air and earth. There is potential for good sexual chemistry here because Gemini amuses Taurus.

For a fling or wild evening of unpredictable sex, this combo is okay. Taurus's solid nature, though, usually turns off Gemini's creativity and whimsy for anything longer than a one-night stand. The sexual ground where these two meet is the feel of skin. Gemini has very sensitive skin, and Taurus loves to touch it.

Gemini and Gemini

This is a polygamous relationship by definition because there are four partners: the two Geminis and their twins. Geminis immediately recognize their own, and there is a great sexual charge between them. They can talk, play games, amuse themselves, and fantasize, and they can try out many different ways of lovemaking. The best part of the relationship is that they never bore each other.

Gemini and Cancer

Mercury and the Moon are the rulers here, and there is delight between Gemini and Cancer, if not passion. Gemini changes his mind so frequently, and Cancer changes her moods so frequently, that they can understand if one person wants to play with sex toys one night and then prefers plain old sex the next. At the core of this relationship Gemini is usually too cool for sentimental Cancer, but before these signs find that out, they can have a very good time.

Gemini and Leo

There are many opportunities for pleasure here. Gemini entertains Leo, who loves the drama of Gemini's different roles. These two take turns intriguing, servicing, and enjoying each other, and Gemini's air fans Leo's fire. Leo is a dramatic sign and always welcomes communication in any form. Gemini's verbal facility and love of wordplay will lead her to compliment Leo, and the fastest way into Leo's pants is with compliments. This combination is fun and hot. Both signs are inventive and like making love near a sunny beach.

Gemini and Virgo

This is called a square relationship in astrology, and is not easy. Both Gemini and Virgo are ruled by Mercury and are thinking signs. However, they are in different and incompatible elements: air and earth.

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Best advice for Gemini: if you have the hots for Virgo, don't keep him waiting. He won't give you another chance.

Whereas airy Gemini and earthy Taurus interest each other, Virgo and Gemini cannot meet in a manner that encourages good sex. They may pique each other's minds, but getting down to physical passion requires naked lust. These two signs have too much going on mentally and might not really get down to it. Sex between the two is interesting but not juicy.

Gemini and Libra

These two air signs always have lots to say to each other. They are good friends, and that ease can turn into friendly sex. Gemini is definitely the wilder of the pair and may have to soothe Libra's need for romance before there is any action.

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The scent of lavender will be a great turn-on for Gemini and Libra. And flowers for Libra will always get her in the mood.

Libra and Gemini both will enjoy sexy clothing. Libra has no problem with thigh-high boots and fishnet stockings, and Gemini will enjoy taking them off. Or another night, they might indulge in lace and leather. Of course, all these games require lots of discussion, and that pleases both signs.

Gemini and Scorpio

Here we have the elements air and water, and a combination between the most easily distracted sign, Gemini, and the most focused sign, Scorpio. Sexually it can work only because Gemini is able to experiment with anything that may pique Scorpio's interest. If Gemini wants games, that's okay with Scorpio. If Scorpio wants a brief encounter in a bathroom or behind the bushes, that's okay with Gemini. But at the end of the day, these two signs may not have much to do with each other once the games lose their excitement.

Gemini and Sagittarius

These are opposite signs, but they have compatible elements, air and fire. These opposites attract and complement each other. In the bedroom, both signs believe in fun and silliness. Emphasize any kind of oral sex with a Sag or Gemini, and both will be pleased. Love of sports and the outdoors gets the circulation and passion going with this sexy combination.

One of their great pluses is that Gemini's natural inclination toward change and Sag's absolute need for motion and freedom have free reign when these two get together. They understand each other's needs, and that usually translates into good sex.

Gemini and Capricorn

This is a not-so-hot combination, unless each person has a bit of Gemini or Capricorn in the chart. The elements are air and earth, but Capricorn's sensuality and seriousness overwhelms Gemini's need to play and try out different sexual ideas. Also, Gemini rarely can be the kind of solid citizen that Capricorn enjoys, so these two might never get to first base. If they do and Gemini makes Capricorn laugh, then there is a possibility of a good time in the sack for a while.

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To help focus Gemini's hyper brain, try this technique.

While both of you are lying on the floor, cup your Gemini's head in your hands, and with gentle pressure over the ears, cradle her head. You will notice her breathing immediately steady and relax. She might not like it for a long time, but it will prime her for relaxed sex.

Gemini and Aquarius

This combination can be the Kama Sutra in action because both signs are interested in exploring sex. They may have a great time belonging to an adult book club just to see what people are doing.

The two air signs have compatible sexual energies. Passion, feeling, and love are not what bring these two together. Their combo is hot because they are mentally attuned and fearless in trying whatever sexy thing they think up.

Each sign also understands the variable needs of the other and can give them space to fool around. They are good companions and will try to understand each other in and out of bed.

Gemini and Pisces

Air and water in this combination is not so hot. Gemini and Pisces have a square relationship, which is challenging for an in-depth connection. Sexually, Gemini's planet, Mercury, is too abrupt and fickle for Pisces's Neptunian sensitivity and emotional needs

Their rhythms are quite different also, because Gemini is speedy and Pisces likes a languid time in the bedroom. Gemini may enjoy Pisces's dreaminess for a short time, but Pisces wants to shut off the mind in sex and Gemini wants to stimulate it. The two don't have enough in common energetically to produce hot sex.

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