Sexy Matches: The Hot and Not-So-Hot Combinations

Since Cancer is one of the most sentimental signs of the zodiac, if he connects with someone who is on the not-so-hot list, he may continue the relationship because of past history. Perhaps that not-so-hot Aquarius and Cancer have had a good time in the past. Or perhaps Cancer wants to stick together longer because things might change. Cancer should always follow his feelings.

Cancer and Aries

Both these signs are leadership signs, but in very different ways and elements. Cancer is a water sign, and Aries is a fire sign. In this case, the combo is not so hot because Cancer needs flow and consistency, and Aries needs quick changes and swift moves. If aggression and anger fuel sexuality, sometimes this combo can be hot for an experiment. Aries might learn a few things from Cancerian charm and sensitivity. After a while, though, Cancer's emotionality rains on Aries's parade.

Cancer and Taurus

Water and earth have good opportunities together for sex, friendship, and long-term partnership. Their rulers, the Moon and Venus, respectively, are interested in harmonious relationships and will work hard to perfect sex. This is a fertile and sensual combination; after all, earth and water are all that flowers need to grow.

They both need to feel secure: Cancer cares about emotional security, and Taurus is concerned with material security. This is a definite hot connection because the two signs feel safe and sexy with each other. Both signs also love the feel of soft skin, good food, and a comfortable home.

Cancer and Gemini

The Moon and Mercury together in the elements of water and air are okay. Cancer can be wacky but is always rooted in her feelings. Gemini is wacky and experimental because he thinks up different positions or sexual fantasies. Cancer may at first indulge in Gemini's quick-change artistry, but then begins to get restless and sense that the variety is not based on feelings. Then the Gemini charm begins to feel cold to Cancer, and she yearns for a steadier stream of feeling and sex. This is a good choice for a fun affair, but may be too erratic for Cancer long term.

Cancer and Cancer

There is no place like home, and home is where these two crabs love to be. Sexually speaking, they are content to hole up in the bedroom for a night. They will mirror each other's sexual needs and both feel very satisfied. The challenge may come the next morning when one has to go out of the house (which neither of these homebodies will be inclined to do). This combo is rarely interested in just a fling. Both signs look for a long-term sexual relationship, and will not get involved when there is not some promise of that on the horizon.

Cancer and Leo

Here we have the Moon and the Sun, which represent two ancient and archetypal female and male principles: the mother and the father. Cancer loves the paternal dimension of Leo's generous character because it feels family-like, and Leo laps up the nurturing attention that Cancer offers so easily. This is a good sexual affair and relationship. Long term, the difference in their elements, water and fire, may fizzle, but if there is enough history together Cancer will make it work.

Alert

The sweetness of Cancer's personality belies a formidable anger when he is spurned. Cancer always makes his feelings known, and if he feels mistreated he will not be quiet about making you know his discontent. His typical passive-aggressive mood becomes clearly aggressive because you have committed a Cancerian mortal sin: broken a bond between you.

Cancer and Virgo

Water and earth are a friendly, sexy vibration between two people. Here the Moon and Mercury are mildly hot. The Moon is emotional, and Mercury is cooler but sensual. They are not terrifically passionate because Cancer feels constricted by Virgo's precise and analytical tendencies.

And woe to the couple if Cancer feels criticized; this situation marks the end of sexual possibilities. This is a nice combo, very respectful of each other. An affair between these two won't light up the sky, but neither will it harm anyone.

Cancer and Libra

Astrologically, this traditionally challenging relationship has a lot going for it. It is a hot combination because both signs melt into romance and believe in the specialness of coupledom. Cancer loves Libra's sexy beauty. Also, the nurturing part of the Cancerian character usually includes hospitality, and there is not a better aphrodisiac for Libra than entertaining. After-a-party sex in a beautiful home that both Libra and Cancer like is not only sexy, but also promises to move the relationship forward into a long-term partnership.

These two signs can argue fiercely because they are passionate about their points of view. But sometimes, make-up-after-an-argument sex is the best, and Cancer and Libra can take advantage of that.

Cancer and Scorpio

The Moon and Mars in the same element, water, make this a hot combination. There is a wordless connection between these two signs, where they both know that in a very few minutes, hours, or days, they will be off to sexual-pleasure land. Cancer may be the more conservative partner, but the flow of sexy moods between her and Scorpio can melt inhibitions and lead her to explore a few areas that she might not usually try. Cancer may enjoy dominance-and-submission fantasies with Scorpio for a while. However, if Scorpio dominates too much, the Crab will scuttle away because she feels her sensitivities are not coddled. Before Cancer leaves, though, these two will have had a very good time between the sheets.

Cancer and Sagittarius

Water and fire in this case fizzle rather than boil. Cancer's sexiness depends on a feeling of emotional security for the moment, and Sagittarius is not into the prelude to shagging that Cancer needs. Cancer wants closeness, and implicit in that desire is the possibility of a relationship continuing. Sag feels the Crab's pincers and says, “Get me out of here.” If Cancer is very young and feeling bold, an affair between the two is exciting, and there is no other zodiacal combination that can laugh together so well. Long term, these two live life with different expectations and will usually pass each other by.

Cancer and Capricorn

These are opposite signs, with water and earth as the elements. This is a hot combo because it fulfills both signs' deepest needs. Cancer feels secure, and Capricorn feels nurtured and entertained. Capricorn will never fear that Cancer is a gold digger because Cancer always wants more than money and status. Between the sheets, the emotional flow of sexy feelings truly can melt Capricorn's stubbornness and tensions. In other words, Cancer helps Capricorn lighten up. Traditionally, Capricorn has symbolized the father, and Cancer the mother. This fundamental polarity, which is the nucleus for a family, is a hot connection and ensures the future of the human race.

Cancer and Aquarius

This is a not-so-hot combination. Cancer is too emotional to tolerate the dispassionate friendliness that Aquarius offers to his friends and lovers. If Aquarius is going through one of his turned-off phases, Cancer will take it personally and feel abandoned. Once in a blue Moon these two might get it on, but that isn't usual, satisfying, or long-lasting.

Zone

The soft skin under the upper arm has a delectable feel in Cancer women. Caressing this area feels especially intimate. From there, the breasts are not far away.

Cancer and Pisces

The Moon and Neptune are the planets involved in this combination, and both signs are in the element of water. It is a sexy combination in its own way. Hot means sparks, and these two signs are more into merging and highly emotional sex. Physically they share a love of subtlety, groove on stimulants, and retreat from the world to create a pleasure nest.

Cancer and Pisces together can create infinite fantasy variations that keep them occupied and cooing for a long time. Cancer will work hard to create a love nest for the Crab and the Fish so they may enjoy each other's sensitivities.

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