Aries is a leader and will be in hot pursuit of anyone who has caught his attention. Life and sex are contests to Aries, and it doesn't matter if the prize is just a kiss — he wants to win. All the fire signs are intuitive and inspirational in all areas of their lives. Aries is the first fire sign and leads the pack in terms of ardor and high energy.
From reveille in the morning, Aries is ready to charge through the day, investigating what members of the opposite sex she can charm and seduce into playing on her team. Aries wants her fiery energy to burn with someone, and like a frisky ram she hunts for a lover to play with. She likes to conquer but not dominate. It is a fine distinction.
She is not violent, but instead extremely passionate, and welcomes someone who will seduce her after he first shows resistance. If her potential mate's resistance really is rejection, she will speedily leave for a more likely prospect, but until she gets the message that “no” means “no sex for you,” she will charge into the fray.
There can be a thin line between aggression and violence. Aries is not an out-of-control sign and does not usually explode with temper the way Taurus can, but biting, slapping, wrestling, and fooling around with belts can be very alluring and sexy activities for Aries. He likes the pursuit of sex almost as much as the deed itself.
With all his fire, he needs a lot of passionate contact; a cute cuddle or tame affection will not satisfy the Ram.
Moving from a one-night stand to a more consistent relationship is a challenge for Aries. It does happen, and if you are unsure what your status is, ask. Aries will be clear on this point, but can be persuaded to keep the fire going if there is enough spice between you.
Aries loves spicy tastes. Seduction by chili pepper may not be listed in a sex manual, but try cooking or eating Mexican food consistently with your Aries. Chances are, you will have a great time in bed.