To learn more about yourself and your partner, figure out in which sign his or her Venus and Mars is located. This information will add zing to everything you have learned about your lover's Sun sign.

Mars in Aquarius

Mars in Aquarius usually forges intense friendships that may or may not include sex. The thrusting, charge-ahead energy of the god of war is tempered when he is placed in Aquarius because Aquarius is about thinking and mental stimulation, not always about acting.

Expect surges of sexual heat with this sign. Mars in Aquarius may not be interested in having sex for weeks, and then get on a roll and want you available now and for the next week. Then something else catches Mars in Aquarius's attention, and it's back to a sexual fast.

The best way to encourage a more consistent flow of nooky is to talk about things that interest her. To start with the abstract and move to the physical is the only way to get to the person with Mars in Aquarius.

Venus in Aquarius

Venus in Aquarius denotes a very self-possessed person who may not need sex all the time, but when in the vicinity of a charming guy or girl is happy to let coolness go and see what happens. As with all Aquarian placements, there is an emphasis on friendly communication. Pats on the back, hugs, and tousling your hair may be the subtle clues that a Venus in Aquarius person has that special tingle for you. He won't usually be in hot pursuit.

This placement is also not particularly modest or uptight about sexual relations. If it happens one night, fine. There may be another occasion, or the two of you can continue being friends. Men with this placement will pursue a very individual, creative type of woman. And women will enjoy a unique type of man. There are no hang-ups here about a relationship between people of very different ages.