Discovering You by Robert M. Sherfield, Ph.D.
In our fast-paced society, it is easy to lose sight of not only where you are going, but also where you have been. It is easy to forget the things that have brought you to this point in your life.
In self-esteem research and theory, there is a term called self-disclosure. This means disclosing things about you and your life to other people. It means that you find someone that you trust enough to know the truth about you. Simple self-disclosure is not enough, though, because it is near impossible to disclose the truth about yourself to other people when you have not even disclosed the truth about yourself to you. Without giving yourself a chance to hear the good news first, it is impossible to give others the good news.
With self-promotion, you will focus on self self-disclosure. This means letting yourself know some things about you. It means trusting yourself enough to let you disclose your joys, your triumphs, and your successes to yourself.
Self self-disclosure will take some work. It is hard to think of talking to yourself and writing to yourself without thinking that you have a mental problem. Relax; it is perfectly healthy to remind yourself of who you are and what you have to offer. People with healthy self-esteem have the ability to reveal themselves to others and they have the ability to reveal themselves to themselves.