You've thought and said it many times in your daughter's life, even when she was a tiny newborn. Of all the things you wish for her: intelligence, school success, solid friendships, and a happy career, the one thing you crave the most is for her to be a good person. As much as you work to establish a value system from the time she walks, it is in the adolescent years that it gets put to the test and, in the end, is formed for life.