Appearance and Cleanliness
Dirt and mud are two words often associated with boys. Boys often get a bad rap for being messy and smelly — but do they deserve it?
Your son's skin may take a nosedive once puberty hits. All of a sudden, he may have to deal with unsightly, acne-riddled skin. Introduce him to over-the-counter facial cleansers and medications to help clear problem acne. Talk to your health care provider about acne that doesn't respond well to topical treatments.
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Accutane is a powerful anti-acne medication for severe acne. Only a doctor can prescribe it. Since there are risks associated with it, you will also have to have your son's blood checked while he takes Accutane. Visit the American Academy of Dermatology at
Your son's hair has been in your control for years. Giving up the control of his hairstyle may or may not be easy for you, but it is essential to your son that you do so.
If, as he begins to get older, he is still letting you take charge of the haircuts, start asking your son about his likes and dislikes. This can help to ease the transition for both of you, though it won't stop him from coming home one day and announcing he wants a mohawk. A word of warning: Unlike body-piercing parlors, hair salons don't require parents to be there.
Your son may develop an interest in hair-care products that go beyond shampoo and conditioner. Many young men use other products to enhance curl or hold their hairstyle in place. This is perfectly normal.
Good hygiene is a must. You may find that adolescent boys sometimes aren't as good at the daily shower as others. Be sure to talk to your son about taking a regular shower or bath. Let him choose which he prefers. Explain that there are certain times when he really should shower, such as after working out or playing sports.
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Flossing is an important topic even for teens. While parents may simply be relieved that they can get their son to brush his teeth, teaching him the importance of flossing now can help him incorporate this into his daily regimen more easily.
If you have a problem convincing your son to bathe or shower, there are some strategies to help. First of all, be sure to praise him whenever he showers on his own. Compliment him honestly any chance you get on his cleanliness. Notice if he goes out of his way to look or smell nice. This can help him have positive associations with cleanliness. Sometimes allowing him to use a men's cologne when he showers also helps.
Deodorant is a must. Teaching your son to get in the habit of wearing it should start early. Be sure to emphasize that everyone has body odor and that it is normal. This will help him not feel like you think he smells, even if it is true. Letting him choose his own deodorant may be helpful. There are special products marketed toward teens for hygiene purposes. They may be a bit more expensive, but if your son actually uses the products, it may be worth the cost.
When your son is ready to start shaving, help him pick products to protect his skin. He may have sensitive skin and frequent shaving might make his skin sore. Acne can be an issue when shaving, so be sure to stay on top of acne with cleanliness and treatment.
Good old-fashioned soap and water will take care of most of what ails him, though a few nice products may encourage him to take better care of himself. For this alone, the extra price is probably worth it.
