Peer pressure is something many parents worry about. While you know that ultimately you can teach your son only so much before it's time for him to fly on his own, this is scant comfort when your worry reflex kicks in. Having a good base for your son is the most important thing you can give him.

Parents Are Key

You have influence over your son. This may come as quite a shock to you, but studies show that teens who have a good relationship with their parents are less likely to be in trouble and less likely to abuse drugs and alcohol. The relationship between parent and son is an important one, and it requires work. The time you spend in building a good relationship will help you nurture him until he is able to make decisions for himself. It also gives him the faith that you will be there to help him solve problems and issues that may arise.

Studies show that parents have more influence over their sons than peers do. This should ease your mind as a parent, though you shouldn't let your guard down. The rest of your family, especially your son's siblings, also influence the way he acts.

Friends Contend

Research by Dr. Lianne Woodward in the Journal of Abnormal Child Psychology showed that preteens who had poor peer relations in the middle school age group were more likely to have problems as teenagers.

Friends are more important than the outer peer groups or his school in general. His close friends will have more influence than others. This means it is important to be sure that his friends have values and judgment that you would like to see in your son.