You expect your daughter — in regard to sex — to handle herself with the same intelligence and thoughtfulness and dignity she exhibits in all other aspects of her life. Always hold her to the highest standards. But should she make a slip, let her know that she can always come to you and tell you the truth — she must never forget that. Although you may not condone whatever she did, you will carry her emotionally through her troubled moments. You are her parent and her steadfast pal.