First Visit to the Dentist
By the time your child is three, she should have visited the dentist at least once or twice. If your two-year-old has inherited unhealthy teeth and gums, however, she may already need to see a dentist more often.
Fact
Some dentists recommend that your child have a fluoride varnish, which cuts down on the incidence of cavities significantly. You can also give your child fluoridated water to drink (from plastic bottles) if your community does not have fluoride in its water. Too much fluoride has been shown to be problematic, so ask your dentist for recommendations.
Even though your two-year-old will lose her deciduous (“baby”) teeth, these teeth play an important role in her overall health, affecting more than her dental health. Baby teeth are softer than adult teeth, so they need to be brushed as thoroughly and as regularly as adult teeth.
A dentist will check the health of your baby's teeth and gums for signs of decay. Infected or rotted baby teeth can cause problems later for the adult teeth, leading to stains, pits, and weak teeth and gums.
The dentist will take x-rays of your two-year-old's mouth (your child will wear a lead blanket to protect his body) to examine both your child's baby teeth and what's happening under his gums. He'll look closely at his teeth with instruments and a mirror. The hygienist will clean his teeth, and either the hygienist or dentist (or both) will talk to him about how to take care of his teeth. They may even ask to watch him brush.
Most children feel a natural distrust of the dentist and feel displeasure at the idea of visiting the dentist — they feel vulnerable having to sit still and keep their mouths open for someone who prods them with metal objects. To help your two-year-old get through this experience, be sure to describe to him in advance what will take place and what the office will be like. Explain that even though the dentist will be using metal tools, that they won't hurt him.
When you arrive at the dentist's office, introduce your two-year-old to the receptionist, hygienist, and dentist so that he feels more comfortable with them. They'll probably spend some time reiterating what they will be doing, and (if they're used to working with children) they'll let your child play safely with the equipment so that he isn't intimidated by it. And, of course, your child will probably go home with a new toothbrush!
It's a big deal for your child to go to the dentist, so congratulate him afterward for doing such a good job, and ask him how he felt about the visit. Talking about an experience afterward really helps children process what has just happened.
If the dentist finds any problems with your child's teeth, he'll point them out to you as well as recommend treatment. Likewise, if you have trouble brushing your two-year-old's teeth, you can ask the dentist for suggestions on better care.
Essential
Many dentists specialize in helping children feel comfortable during dentist visits. If you can, find a doctor who has made this a priority. Their offices can be less daunting and more fun than regular dentist offices, plus the dentist will know how to deal with a child who is scared or emotional.
If your child ever falls or gets hurt in the mouth — especially if she loses or cracks a tooth — see a dentist immediately. If possible, put the tooth or piece of tooth in a glass of milk (milk has nutrients the tooth's root cells need to stay healthy) and bring it with you. If it is nighttime, call the dentist and follow the instructions for an emergency that she's left on her voice mail or with the answering service. You may have to wait until morning to see the dentist, but it's possible the dentist or an assistant might be able to meet you and your child at the office after you describe the problem.
