They may seem worlds away now, but matters like school, parks, and play groups are waiting just around the corner. As you talk to other parents and families in your neighborhood, start to gather information on the resources available in your area. If you are hunting for a bigger home in anticipation of your new arrival, be sure to investigate the school district possibilities and community resources now to save yourself another move in five years.

Kids in Community

That oft-said proverb, “It takes a whole village to raise a child,” is valid. The community in which you raise your child will play a large part in shaping her values, beliefs, and personality. You will be the gatekeeper for her early exposure to the outside world, of course, but schools, playgroups, and community services that reinforce your value system will make parenting your growing child a group effort rather than a solitary endeavor. Just as important will be your own personal investment in these institutions as you give of your time and talents.

It's not too early to get involved with a play group when your baby is just a few months old, since he will enjoy playing with you and observing other kids in a group setting. Investigate what's already available in your area or talk to some parents and moms-to-be in your neighborhood about starting up something new once the baby arrives. Laying the foundation for friendships and positive community relationships now will help your child flourish.

Faith and Family

New parents often find themselves exploring their roots and reconnecting with their own childhoods. Even if your extended family lives far away, you can still share the special moments of your pregnancy and birth through photos, videotapes, and phone calls. Sharing the parenting experience across generations can be a powerful experience that forges a special bond with grandparents. And when Thanksgiving comes, you'll finally feel like you belong at the adult table.

Before you became pregnant, spirituality may have taken a back seat in your busy life. Now that you are going to have a child to raise and educate, the traditions and values of your faith, whatever it is, are going to take on a new dimension. If you and your partner come from different religious backgrounds, this subject holds special significance. Will you choose one organized religion over the other or expose your child to both faiths? If you're concerned about baptism, an interfaith service that respects the traditions and beliefs of two-religion families is an option. It is important to open up family communication by talking about your expectations now.