So who will be at the big event? This is perhaps one of the most crucial parts of a birth plan: to prepare for adequate support during this very difficult job that lies ahead. Is this a personal experience for just your partner and you, or do you want additional family, friends, or doula support there? The decision is even tougher for first-time moms, who may have some misconceptions about exactly what will happen and who will be there when they hit the maternity ward.

Many women think that their provider or, at the least, a dedicated staff nurse will be available to assist them with the entire labor and birth. In most places that simply isn't true, for a variety of reasons. Shift changes, the number of patients in labor, and other factors may have you and your partner spending a lot of the time alone. Having a doula on your labor team is a great way to ensure continuity of care.

Why enlist a doula's assistance if a dad or coach is present? Many doulas will provide early labor support at home, a benefit that most practitioners can't match. It's also reassuring to many dads to know that they have a backup, and aren't forced to remember everything they learned in their six-week childbirth class during this emotionally charged time.

If you will have people waiting at the hospital who won't be participating in your birth but whom you would like to introduce to the baby as soon after delivery as possible, indicate your wishes in the birth plan. And don't forget about a caregiver for any younger children present, who will need supervision and support.