Whether they are occasional or constant, accidents really are exactly that — accidents. If you think your child is just trying to upset you when her toilet terror reaches epic proportions or when she soils and wets anywhere and everywhere, then you should definitely get professional assistance to deal with such a difficult child. Otherwise, get professional assistance to stop taking your child's problems personally. As long as you think everything is about you, you won't be objective enough to figure out how to help her. When you encounter one potty disaster after another, mustering objectivity is difficult indeed. But before you schedule your first appointment with a therapist, review the following solutions to common potty training problems.