Sports seem like a natural extracurricular activity and in most communities, sport teams are available to children starting at a very young age. However, playing on a team may not be the best choice for your child.

Ability

While your child does not have to be a pro to play sports, he will feel more comfortable if he has a certain level of ability. Large-muscle coordination, hand-eye coordination, and the ability to run should be considered. A child may want to participate in a sport despite challenges, while other children do not find it at all fun. Look for other activities that will be fun for them.

Practice

Being a part of a sports team requires practice (with the team as well as individually), but many children do not understand the practice behind the game. Talk to your child about the time and effort commitment before signing up. How will practice impact other activities and schoolwork?

Sportsmanship

Playing on a team requires sportsmanship. While this can be character-building, it can also be frustrating for the impulsive or easily angered child.

Does your child take medication during the school day? Does he take it outside of school time? Talk to your child's coach about medical considerations that will impact how your child gets along with others and follows directions.

Team Support

Sometimes playing sports may not be the best choice of activity for a child. It may not be a good physical or emotional match, and yet the child may still be very interested in being on the team.

Many community teams and school teams are open to someone helping the team in other ways. Being a team manager, helping with equipment, or otherwise assisting the team may be an option.