The Art of Oral Pleasure
Erotic pleasure, delivered via the mouth, is truly an art. Learning to use your mouth, including your lips, teeth, and tongue, to satisfy your lover will likely earn you many bonus points in your intimate relationships. Oral pleasure can be used either as foreplay or as the main path to orgasm. Because mouths are warm and wet, they provide tremendous sensation and ample lubrication to the stimulation you deliver this way. They seem to be designed perfectly for providing such pleasure. Add some simple technique to this perfect design and you can create an erotic experience for your lover that is out of this world.
Receiving Oral Pleasure
Not everyone is comfortable receiving oral pleasure. Concerns about how your genitals look, smell, or taste can get in the way of your enjoyment. You may also be preoccupied with whether your partner feels burdened by the task. The most direct way to deal with these concerns is to communicate your discomfort with your lover. He may be able to assure you that he loves doing this, that it turns him on, and that your genitals look, smell, and taste fine. Alternatively, you can take some deep breaths and remind yourself that your lover probably wouldn't be doing this if he didn't want to. The more you can relax and surrender to the pleasure, the more gratifying it will be, and the more likely you will experience orgasms this way.
If worries about cleanliness or smells are getting in the way of enjoying oral pleasure, then bathe or shower beforehand. Consider, though, that your lover might really enjoy your unwashed taste and smell. Some lovers even like oral pleasure after a sweaty workout because of the smells produced and the taste of salt on the skin.
Giving Oral Pleasure
The mouth has many ways of delivering pleasure. You can be creative as you explore the many ways you can use your mouth to create enjoyable sensations for your lover. Try using your tongue in different ways. The variety can include full-blown kitty-cat licks with your whole tongue, making circles and figure eights, or flickering rapidly with just the tip. Play around with sucking, using your lips and teeth to create a vacuum. This can draw more blood to your partner's genitals and erogenous zones. Use your teeth by gently nibbling or more aggressively biting various parts of your lover's body. Breathe onto your lover's genitals or other erogenous zones, either by pressing your open mouth against her or by blowing air through your lips. You can mix and match all of these techniques, discovering whatever you and your lover enjoy.