The purpose of this book is to shed some light onto the taboo subject of sex. It was written with the intent to open minds and educate readers about arousal and orgasms. It offers to help alleviate the many fears and stigmas associated with sex. The ultimate goal is to improve the experience of sex for those who are ready. The following chapters will open your eyes to many of the false beliefs pertaining to sex and orgasm that have been a source of painful confusion to many people. It will educate you about what orgasms are and are not, how they come to be, how to make them happen, and how to make them better. It will also provide you with a greater vocabulary for talking about your experiences. The more you understand about sex and the orgasmic experience, the less you will fear it, and the more likely you will enjoy your own sexuality and grant others the freedom to enjoy theirs.
The primary focus of this book is on enriching your experience of orgasm, but it is in no way a definitive guide to all possible experiences with orgasm—that would be an impossible task. The orgasmic experience is as varied and subjective as the imagination will allow. This book does, however, delve into all of the main categories of experience with orgasm, including anatomy and physiology of orgasm, body-mind preparation, relationship and communication skills, sexual behaviors, and unique challenges. Studying and learning more in these realms can help you find your way to greater and greater arousal and orgasmic pleasure.
The information in this book will provide you with many useful tools as you explore your erotic self and seek more enjoyable orgasmic experiences. It is up to you, however, to create the time and space for your own erotic exploration. As you read, consider how you might make this more of a priority in your life. Taking time out for pleasure is perhaps the most challenging hurdle to get over. To experience more enjoyable and powerful orgasms, it is crucial to give your body the time it needs to relax into sex and build arousal. This is your journey, your unfolding into bliss, and you are the only one who can make that happen for yourself.
The time for closer examination and exploration of your sexuality is ripe. More and more brave souls are pioneering their way to greater erotic and orgasmic pleasure and sharing their discoveries, paving the way for others to do the same. There is more dialogue about sex and orgasm. The fields of clinical sexology, sex coaching, and sex therapy are growing. And there are many books, magazines, websites, and informative programs and videos available to assist you in your explorations. There is considerable momentum for tearing down the dilapidated old walls of sexual shame and ignorance and planting beautiful gardens of sexual satisfaction and enjoyment in their place. Explore the ever-expanding fields of possibility and potential for more exquisite erotic and orgasmic experiences; they are your birthright. You deserve all the pleasure you can receive!