The bride is the not the only one that needs some beauty pampering the day of the wedding. You get to have a little of the glory too! Try to treat yourself by getting the same beauty treatments your daughter will receive, like a manicure, pedicure, and hair and makeup styling. Another great idea is to treat yourself to a massage — something you deserve after all the planning and stress. You should find out whether or not the bride will want to do these day-before and day-of spa treatments with you or with her bridesmaids. Don't be offended if she wants time alone with her bridesmaids — this is her last spa day with her girls before she becomes a “Mrs.” and she may need the time to relax and focus before the big day.