Coping with the grief of losing your soul mate — whether that person was your spouse or your life partner — can make working through your personal finances difficult even if you're money savvy and financially prepared for the loss. There are only a few things that need to be handled right away. Once those things are done, avoid making any other permanent financial plans or investments until you're sure you're emotionally ready. This is the time to give yourself the space to reflect and grieve, do your research, and build a financial team to help you when you need advice.