A sensual massage can be an effective tool in foreplay, where the gentle massaging of the body activates the senses. The massage soothes and relaxes your mate, creating a stronger connection for deeper intimacy. Before getting started, it is essential to create ambiance, an important part of the stimulation process. Dim the lighting, light candles, play soothing music, and burn incense.
Love Body Massage Oil
When creating massage oils, choose an appropriate carrier oil to blend with your essential oils. There are many base oils, including jojoba, grapeseed, sunflower, and almond oil. All of them work well and have been used in conjunction with other oils to create beautiful blends. It is up to you to choose the right base for you. Consider your skin type, scent, and viscosity when you select a base. Almond oil tends to be thicker and spreads well, while grapeseed oil is thinner and tends to be absorbed into the skin with ease. You can also try using store-bought lubricants such as Astro Glide or KY warming massage as an alternative to traditional massage oils.
8 tablespoons apricot kernel oil
6 capsules vitamin E
3 tablespoons aloe vera gel
24 drops Egyptian musk
8 drops patchouli oil
Combine all ingredients in a wooden or glass bowl. Mix well with a wooden spoon. Recite the following incantation:
“Friction and fire, Burning desire, Pulsing and beating ever higher. Shakti, Shakti bless for me, Shiva, Shiva balance the need, Passion and Tantric waiting to be, Love and spirituality it shall be.”
Warm oil slowly in a double boiler. Be careful not to overheat it.
Apply massage oil liberally on the skin without allowing the oil to pool. Should you feel the need to add more essential oil, use a 4 to 1 ratio between Egyptian musk and patchouli. Both scents are aphrodisiacs, and you don't want to overpower your partner.
Sensual Body Massage
Now that you have created your atmosphere and a beautiful love synergy blend to use as your massage oil, it is time to perform your magick. Use your own hands as a tool for creating sexual energy.
Warm up the massage oil by either rubbing it between your hands to create friction or with a warmer. Create warm relaxation rather than tension. Cold massage oil will cause the muscles in the body to contract and tense.
Lay a towel on the bed for protection. Keep extra towels available to cover parts of your partner while he or she lies down.
Have your partner lie face down on the bed, using pillows where needed for added comfort and proper alignment of the spine.
Have your partner concentrate on breathing and listening to beautiful, soothing music.
Beginning at the neck and shoulders, use long fluid motions to rub lengthwise to reduce any tension and stress. Watch your partner's body language to adjust your motions for good pressure and touch.
Bring your hands down the spine and back muscles using consistent fluid motions.
Massage the buttocks and thighs. While rubbing the thighs, start to move your hands up and down the inner thigh, occasionally gently brushing against your partner's private areas. This helps build sexual energy.
Continually move up and down your partner's legs, moving down to the feet. Massage the feet according to the likes of your partner. Use great care and caution not to tickle the feet; this will disrupt the sexual energy.
Take your time and work all over the body. Have your mate turn over. Beginning at the chest, lightly massage the breasts or pectoral muscles, moving in circular motions around the breast and nipples.
Bring your hands down to the waist in long strokes. Try not to rub too lightly here. Continue rubbing the thighs and around the genital area.
This beginning should lead you to a wonderful night of enchanted lovemaking. Make things interesting by using the softness of feathers or flowers to stimulate the senses further.