Pillow Talk: Signs in the Bedroom

Getting Taurus into bed is not always easy. Taurus wants to make love — not just have sex. And she'll have to be in love to do that. It's important here to keep in mind that Taurus often falls in love with partners who are not in love with her.

Making love to Taurus is an art. He's not interested solely in the final outcome. Foreplay is genuine and an important prelude to the final act. He'll instinctively know how to warm you up, too. Both Taurus men and Taurus women are true sex kittens — they wrote the book. Following are the differences between seducing a Taurus man and the female Bull.

The Secret Taurus Man

Taurus man does, indeed, take himself a bit too seriously. The weight of the world is on his shoulders, and it's up to him to judge everyone. The whole financial security thing is not a joke — Taurus, no matter how much he's in love, will run away from a partner if he believes she has spending or debt problems. That said, one thing that will help you seduce the male Bull is to spend money on him (at the same time making clear, of course, that doing so does not cause you even the slightest hardship). Take him to an expensive restaurant, or do the opposite. Take him to a less expensive restaurant and show him how good you are at budgeting. He'll appreciate it.

ALERT!

Though patience is one of Taurus's identifying traits, he'll react with quick, determined impatience if you threaten his sense of constancy — financially or otherwise. When this happens, make amends immediately. And don't do it physically. Repair the problem with words.

The Right Approach

Taurus man will withdraw physically faster than any other sign. If he's hurt, you'll know it right away. He's sensitive. Also remember that Taurus gets a bit obsessive and has a tendency to sink into a depressive state when he's angry or feels he's been betrayed.

Don't try to woo a Taurus back to bed to make it up to him. He'll be offended. Instead, deal with the issue right away, and don't go to sleep mad. If he has time to dwell on things, he'll be worse off the next day and the day after that. Once you've done your job, though, and Taurus forgives you (a difficult task!) you'll be surprised by how fast he'll warm right back up.

FACT

Physically, Taurus men are usually broad-shouldered and can sometimes be stocky. They love to eat and to watch a woman eat, too. A little extra meat on a woman is not a turnoff for the male Bull.

Making Love

In bed, these men love to bite and be bitten. They love all earthy, sensual qualities of lovemaking. Rub his neck to get him in the mood — it won't take long. Here's a tip: Though the Taurus man needs to dominate in bed, he feels strong and confident enough in his abilities to take direct orders. In fact, when a male Bull is told what to do in bed, it turns him on. Remember that he is service oriented. He'll want you to “finish,” like every other project he takes on in life. And Taurus man will do everything he can to get you there. He also always likes to be appreciated for his efforts — he'll want equal attention to all parts of him. Just keep in mind that if you don't finish every time, Taurus will be offended and go away upset.

The Secret Taurus Woman

She's strong and sensual and very stubborn. If you push too hard or too fast, she'll balk. Vulgarity is a huge turnoff for her. Though she seems to be even more aggressive and modern in her approach to sex than her male counterpart, she's just as old-fashioned. In other words, she'll tempt you and tease you into bed, but she's secretly hoping you'll be man enough to stop and tell her you want to wait for the right moment. This will prove that you really care for her.

ESSENTIAL

With the Taurus woman, everything is a test. Don't take her to bed too quickly. Though it may seem that's what she wants — she may even follow through — she'll only judge you for it. Patience is the key to her heart.

Stability Seeker

Though Taurus man sometimes spins in circles trying to make enough money to appease his insatiable hunger for security, Taurus woman intuitively knows how to earn it and keep it. She'll also look for a very stable provider — wealth can be an aphrodisiac for her. True, she'll fall in love with a man who's not rich rich, but she'll never settle down with a man who can't take care of her and her future brood. She looks forward to being a parent; she has an earthy, nurturing instinct that comes out. If she wants to, let her mother you a little.

QUESTION?

What is a great date for a Taurus woman?

Anything that makes her feel pampered. Take her out to a beautiful restaurant to wine and dine her. If she lets you into her house (a sure sign that she likes you; Taurus is territorial), cook for her. She may even fall in love with you for it.

Emotional/Physical Connection

Like the male Bull, the female Bull, unfortunately, gets attached to circumstances and misses out on emotions. In other words, her feelings are directly linked to the relationship in terms of what it can give her (security) instead of what she really needs (genuine love and getting to fully know the man behind it all).

She, too, can get a bit obsessed with unrequited love and can quickly fall into a depressive state. Sometimes bed may be the only way to reach her when she becomes emotionally distant and talking doesn't help.

The Proper Treatment

Taurus woman also likes to bite and be bitten. She tends to shy away from very lean, skinny men. She wants to feel protected, and a big, hulking man is what she's likely to look for. Also, she might go for men who are well endowed. This is sometimes important to her. A Taurus woman can go for a little wildness in bed, but she also likes it sweet and slow. Focus on her neck, her buttocks, the back of her legs, and her chest; stay away from her stomach.

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