Pillow Talk: Signs in the Bedroom

Sagittarius cannot resist a real challenge. For love, it's got to be there. For sex, this goes double. And don't even think of playing hard to get in the beginning and then letting him have your heart and soul. Real love mates of Sagittarius know that continuing the flirtation throughout their life together means issuing a challenge and letting him “come and get it.” Give Sagittarius everything he wants, and he'll take it with him when he walks out the door.

The Secret Sagittarius Man

Sagittarius is one of the most macho signs of the zodiac. If you tell him he can't do something, he'll do it just for the sake of proving himself. You want to get Sagittarius into bed? Tell him he can't have you, and he'll stop at nothing to show you who's boss. Sagittarius man can also appear emotionally distant. Don't let it fool you. He's passionate, clever, instinctive, and very sexual. In bed, let Sagittarius lead. Tell him to talk to you. He knows exactly what to do, what to say, and when to say it.

He can, however, definitely keep sex and love on different planes, so watch out! Again, ask him what he's after, and he'll tell you. But insult a Sagittarius man on his lovemaking or his intelligence, and you'll never see him again. He'll take it in stride and bounce right back, but he's a lot more sensitive than he seems. And, when it comes down to it, he's a realist. No matter how in love he is, he's not a slave to his passions (or a masochist) like some other signs — Taurus or Cancer, for example.

The Secret Sagittarius Woman

She's all woman. She knows herself well and knows her limits. She's not afraid of love or the emotions that go with it. She's all fire and passion, and she's a great friend, lover, and confidante. But don't be fooled. She'll let herself be conquered only if she wants to be. How do you spark a Sagittarius woman's interest? Here are a few tips:

  • Don't play hard to get. Be hard to get.

  • Never talk about things you're not sure about. Instead, ask her to tell you about them.

  • Listen to her.

  • Be honest.

  • Be modest, but charming.

  • Always be a gentleman, and treat her with respect.

  • Don't be a pushover. Stand up for yourself.

  • Make her laugh, and make sure you laugh at her jokes.

  • Show her you have a life outside of her.

  • Talk in front of her to friends about how wonderful she is.

  • Above all, don't fawn all over Sagittarius woman. She won't trust or like you for it, and she certainly won't go to bed with you. Sagittarius doesn't mind a little public display of affection if she's into you. If she's not, she'll be cool as a cucumber. Though Sagittarius woman is never haughty, and never a snob, if she's nice to you, it doesn't mean she's in love with you. In bed, go by instinct. They'll be time for wild, uncensored sex and also time to make it slow and dreamy. In bed, too, Sagittarius lady is more likely to say how she feels about you. Make sure you let her know how you feel as well.


    Sagittarius — both men and women — have one true defect that you'll just have to accept if you want to be with them: timing in social situations. They're likely to say the wrong thing to the wrong person. Reason: They're candid, open, and honest … to a fault!

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