The Art of Attraction

Gemini practically oozes sex. Man or woman, Gemini has sex appeal that could conquer entire countries. In fact, if you want to make a good impression in any situation, bring a Gemini along. He'll know exactly what to say and how to say it.

ESSENTIAL

Gemini can get along with anybody (if she's so inclined). If not, a verbal lash or a little sarcasm might just be how a Gemini flirts. Read on to learn what makes a Gemini tick and how to get her hooked.

The Long Haul

Most Geminis get married later in life. They claim that they'd like to settle down and raise a family — yet they either find this or that wrong with their potential mates. Better still, they have long-term relationships with people they know are simply not suitable for the long haul. Chances are, though, they're more worried about what tomorrow will bring than what lies fifteen years in the future.

Gemini tends to fall in love with the person who makes him laugh. He's extremely witty and wants his partner to be, too. Remember that he's an Air sign, so he's got to be conquered first through his mind. He always goes for someone “cool” — daring and exciting.

ALERT!

A homebody will not impress Gemini. She'll want to be out on the town, and she'll want you to take her there. This will probably not change over time.

He/She: The Little Stuff Counts

Gemini women like to dress on the sexy side. At the very least, they'll wear something to go along with their fun, flirty personalities. Gemini men, on the other hand, are stylish and sexy no matter what they wear. They're not particularly conservative. They go along with the latest style, as long as it's not too trendy or weird. The Gemini man doesn't mind a bit of sexiness in his partner — as long as it's tasteful.

ESSENTIAL

Gemini men and women take great care in their appearance. A compliment will go a long way. In fact, you'll get extra points if you notice a new shirt, suit, or dress.

Showing Off

Gemini men and women both like to show off the partner on their arm. If a Gemini introduces you to all his friends, you should know he really likes you. His friends are his lifeline. But love is always important to a Gemini. He falls in love quickly, it's true, but whether it's true love, only time will tell. If it's not, a Gemini will be out the door faster than you can say “fickle.”

The Big Spender

When it comes to money, Gemini tends to spend more money on his partner than on himself. He's usually generous and doesn't expect anything for it (except your constant devotion and loyalty!). As far as wanting something for his efforts, this is understandable. Gemini needs a partner who keeps him guessing but one he also knows he can count on. Anyway, it's not easy getting away with treating a Gemini badly. He knows exactly how to work you and get back your affections.

Playing Games

When it comes to playing games, Gemini invented the rules. A less evolved Gemini will be a little needy, possessive, and manipulative. But in the end, she'll still get what she wants. Beware, though, of a clingy Gemini. This tends to be the type who can get violent if provoked. A more evolved Gemini, on the other hand, will come close to giving the appearance of an Earth sign. She'll be interesting, fair, and emotionally balanced — a wonderful lover and partner.

FACT

Gemini is also open to mates of very different background, race, religion, and even age. It's not uncommon for a Gemini to date a person much older or much younger than he is.

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