Pillow Talk: Signs in the Bedroom

Gemini is definitely able to separate sex, love, flings, and real relationships. If she gets it in her mind that you're nothing more than a roll in the hay, she's not likely to change her mind and let it develop into something more meaningful. Gemini is also very sexual but not very sensual (like Scorpio and Taurus). This means that slow, languorous sex is probably not on the menu for the evening.

Actually, Gemini goes for the strange and interesting in the bedroom. Nothing is out of bounds or considered taboo. Gemini also likes to be seduced. A conservative “let's have sex” line will absolutely not work on a Gemini. The Twin goes for a flirty, sexy smile and deep, dark eye contact. Gemini is an expert in the seduction category and expects you to be the same.


Don't necessarily run away from a Gemini who's just insulted you! This is what he wants — he's testing you. Gemini men were the ones who pulled your ponytails in class. Strangely enough, it may be the one way he shows he likes you.

The Secret Gemini Man

Gemini man, on the whole, doesn't know what he wants. If you look at a list of his past relationships, you may have a problem finding a particular pattern to his conquests. Instead, his ex-girlfriends only have one thing in common: They're all completely different. But one thing is true — he's most likely the one who walked away from the relationship first.

Seducing the Twin

As said before, Gemini really gets turned on with the mind. Serve up some good wine, make some good conversation, and demonstrate you understand who the people around you are. That will impress a Gemini man and make him like you more. There's not much you can do to seduce a Gemini man into bed, though. He has decided before the evening even started whether he plans to take you to bed. Though Gemini is sexual, he can also be extremely logical.

Pleasure in Bed

Once in the bedroom, though, Gemini man is adventurous and crafty. He's a fantastic kisser and he likes doing it. He'll need to vary positions to keep his interest up. And Gemini can be a bit sexually selfish, too. This time without words, you can guide Gemini to make him understand what you want. Gemini will pick up your cue easily. A lot of eye contact in bed helps a Gemini man focus on you and on the matter at hand.

The Secret Gemini Woman

She can be wild in bed. Once she's given herself over to you, she'll expect all kinds of sexy moves and seduction. You'll feel like Gemini is grading you — and she is. Conservative positions don't necessarily tickle her fancy. She's looking for style, flair, and imagination.


For Gemini woman, great lovemaking is important. She'll leave a relationship that doesn't have it and stay way too long in a relationship that does.

Sex Talk

Sometimes she likes dirty talk in bed — other times, she might want you to say nothing at all. Ask her what mood she's in. She'll tell you. Most Gemini women carry their verbal skills into the bedroom in some way, even if it's just to give an occasional “ooh” or “aah” to let you know you're doing just fine.

Gemini woman is more easily seduced than Gemini man. Though she's probably decided before the night has started whether she'll allow herself to trip the lights fantastic with you, she can be swayed with sexy conversation (including what you'd like to do with her if you got your way). She'll also be impressed with a little flash — a sleek car, trendy ethnic restaurant, important friends, and some casual name-dropping will help further your cause.


Gemini women tend to be on the jealous side. Watch out! If she sees you talking to your ex at a party, not only will you miss out on getting lucky — you just might have a first-rate drama on your hands.

Playing It Safe

Okay, so Gemini women like to create scenes. Their tendency to exhibitionism has a mind of its own. Did you ever see a man get a drink thrown in his face or a woman screaming at him at the top of her lungs in public? Chances are it was a Gemini woman creating the chaos. It's best not to provoke a Gemini woman. Play it safe and keep her happy, and your time with her will remain copacetic.

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