If you are the support person for someone who is experiencing the emotional upheaval of breast cancer, knowing how to deal with feelings that surface while helping your loved one will have a positive impact on her recovery. An important part of being there for someone is recognizing that it might bring up your own feelings of loss. This section will explore some of the feelings and frustrations that come up when caring for a loved one with breast cancer. Some general guidelines and tips will be covered, but the specifics of how to help are always up to the individual. Being creative in helping your loved one is best when it comes from your heart.