Express Desire in the Right Language
When you are asked about your desire, if you say, “I want to stop dating losers,” you are putting yourself in position to continue attracting them. Loser is an emotionally potent word for people. It's so negative that it is the strongest word in that sentence. Find other words and phrasing to express your desire for a healthy relationship with an emotionally mature individual who is right for you. Think carefully about how you are asking for things. Instead of saying, “I need to get out of this lousy job,” try saying instead, “I am manifesting meaningful work in my field of .”
According to teachers of the Law of Attraction, when you form a strong intentional desire, you shake up the status quo. Even if you aren't doing things to fulfill your desire, you have initiated a shift in your thinking. That, in turn, sets up a new vibration that opens the way for new objects, opportunities, and individuals to show up in your life.