If you and your fiancé come from different types of Jewish backgrounds, whether in terms of your observance, culture, or familial customs, it will take some negotiation, compromise, and honest conversation to be sure both of your needs are met and your comfort levels addressed. This goes not only for your wedding but also for your life together afterward. As you build a home you will often need to compromise, and in some instances you may have to create new ways of doing things so both of you can feel comfortable. Remember that in today's varied world you are not the only couple to face this challenge.