Surefire Conversation Starters

Once the initial connection is made, you will want to keep the conversation lively and interesting. With limited vocabulary skills on either side, both parties may find that they quickly run out of things to say. It will put your mind at ease if you have a few fallback topics.

Animal Sounds

If you think that roosters crow the same way all over the world, you are mistaken. Ask any Japanese person to mimic the quintessential “early bird” and you will hear an unfamiliar squawk. Frogs say gekko-gekko, cats say nyan, and dogs go wan-wan. These sounds can be found in songs and baby talk.

Conversations comparing the cries of animals in the United States and Japan are entertaining and may even border on performance art in some arenas. If you have any theatrical talent in you at all, broach this topic at any gathering for hilarious results:

Niwatori wa donna fuu ni nakimasu ka.

In what manner does a rooster crow?

Any time you are interested in finding out the style, appearance, or manner of something, you can include the phrase donna fuu. For example:

Kaminoke wa donna fuu ni shimasu ka.

How will you style your hair?

Another phrase that is sometimes used in place of donna fuu, but that means almost the same thing is doo iu fuu. Like donna fuu, doo iu fuu shows how something is done or prepared: Doo iu fuu ni yomeba ii desu ka. (“How should I read this?”)

Making Comparisons

Another way to keep the conversation lively is by comparing lifestyles in Japan and your home country. You can make these comparisons using the verb kuraberu (“to compare”). Food, as usual, is a great way to start. Here's a sample dialogue for making comparisons:

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<tgroup cols="2"> <colspec colname="col1" colnum="1" colwidth="50%" colsep="0" rowsep="0" align="left"/> <colspec colname="col2" colnum="2" colwidth="50%" colsep="0" rowsep="0" align="left"/> <tbody> <tr> <td><p><B>Oda-san:</B></p></td> <td><p><emphasis>Nihon de wa gohan ga shushoku desu. Amerika de shushoku wa pan desu ka</emphasis>.</p></td> </tr> <tr> <td><para/></td> <td><p>In Japan, the staple food is rice. Is the American staple food bread?</p></td> </tr> <tr> <td><p><B>Frank:</B></p></td> <td><p><emphasis>Hito ni yoru kedo, uchi de wa jagaimo no ryoori ga ookatta desu</emphasis>.</p></td> </tr> <tr> <td><para/></td> <td><p>It depends on the person, but in my house, we ate a lot of potato dishes.</p></td> </tr> <tr> <td><p><B>Oda-san:</B></p></td> <td><p><emphasis>Demo nihon to kuraberu to pan o taberu hito ga ooi-n ja nai</emphasis>.</p></td> </tr> <tr> <td><para/></td> <td><p>But, if you compare it with Japan, there are more people who eat bread, aren't there?</p></td> </tr> <tr> <td><p><B>Frank:</B></p></td> <td><p><emphasis>Sore wa soo ka mo shirenai</emphasis>.</p></td> </tr> <tr> <td><para/></td> <td><p>That is probably true.</p></td> </tr> <tr> <td><p><B>Oda-san:</B></p></td> <td><p><emphasis>O-sakana wa doo desu ka</emphasis>.</p></td> </tr> <tr> <td><para/></td> <td><p>How about fish?</p></td> </tr> <tr> <td><p><B>Frank:</B></p></td> <td><p><emphasis>Taberu hito wa ippai iru to 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