E-mail is a fast, convenient, and easy method of communication, but it, like all other forms of writing, has its own conventions.
Because of the fast nature of e-mail, people often don't consider the ramifications of what they're sending. Messages can be interpreted differently, and some unintentional meanings can arise. Simple messages can be seen as being terse or impertinent, which probably isn't your intention. Therefore, you have to be careful that your message won't be taken in the wrong way once it's received.
It's considered bad form to quote the entire original e-mail in your response with a one or two word reply, such as “I agree” or “okay.” Take a second and summarize the point you're agreeing with. This is common courtesy, and it makes the other person feel as if you're giving him or her due attention, rather than just banging off a quick reply.
Business E-mail
Business e-mails should be concise and to the point. People in the business world receive many e-mails per day, and the amount of time it takes to wade through these e-mails can put a severe dent in that person's work day, taking time away from other tasks that must be accomplished.
The language you use in your business e-mails should not be overly colloquial — remember that you're corresponding with business associates who expect certain levels of decorum. The use of “emoticons” — typographic characters used to represent facial expressions like smiley faces — should be avoided in business correspondence.
Personal Correspondence E-mail
With personal e-mails, you have a great deal more flexibility in your approach. You don't have to be as careful with getting your point across as you might with business correspondence, but an upset friend can be just as bad as an upset business colleague, so try to be equally careful with the language you use.
One of the ways you can personalize your correspondence is to add
Smiley face |
: ) |
Smiley face with glasses and a nose |
8~) |
Sad face |
: ( |
Perplexed look |
: / |
E-mail Subject Line
Many people receive upwards of a hundred e-mails per day, and the subject line is often used as a form of triage to help the recipient decide which e-mails need an immediate response, and which can be left for later in the day or week.
Make sure that you use a descriptive subject line to indicate what is contained in the body of the e-mail. Otherwise, you risk having your message pushed back or ignored completely if the recipient doesn't recognize it as requiring attention or a response.
The Salutation
In the business world, you will want to use a regular salutation line, such as
Your Signature
You can't actually sign an e-mail, but you can include information about yourself, such as your name, your job title, your contact information, and any other information you consider relevant.
If you wish, you can also specify a “signature line” that will be tacked onto the end of every e-mail you send, so that you don't have to worry about “signing” each message as you send it.
Sig Lines
Almost all e-mail programs provide the ability to specify a line or two that will be attached at the end of every message, known as a signature line. In the professional world, people often use these to indicate their name, profession, address, and contact information, in addition to other information such as book titles published, areas of specialization, or associated Web sites. Others (like the Fawnn'sFriendsList at
Another electronic form of communication is the instant message. An instant message, or “IM,” is a short message sent over the Internet to another user who is actively reading on the other side. Basically, it is like a written phone conversation. The rules for IMs are about the same as those for e-mail — the more familiar you are with the recipient, the more informally you can write.

