Ah, your future mother-in-law. Can't live with her … and nothing more needs to be said, as far as you're concerned. Or is it your mother who's a little out of control over this wedding? Are both mothers duking it out with each other? Throw a stepmother or two into the mix and the event you are planning looks less like a wedding and more like a military maneuver. Whether you come out in one piece on the other side is up to you.