It may be fair to say that the bride takes on the bulk of planning the wedding in many cases (or she may be stressing over the details, even if she's receiving plenty of help in the planning process). In fact, you might feel as though you've hit the jackpot because it seems as though your bride wants to take on everything associated with the wedding, leaving you free to show up and say, “I do.” Not so fast. You've got a little work coming your way, too.