Foreplay Twenty-Four Hours a Day
It's very erotic to feel loved and cherished. Do you remember the first time you were in love? You probably couldn't stop thinking about your heartthrob. That was nonstop foreplay.
Mature couples usually need a little help to remember that it's important to think of your partner during the day, when you are not in each other's presence. Call your partner to say you are thinking of her. Both men and women love even the smallest gestures that show they are in someone's heart.
Don't underestimate the power of extended foreplay! If you have a fulfilling sex life, you might think you don't need to extend the warm-up phase. But this can be the most enjoyable part of lovemaking. Many couples find that foreplay provides them with some of their most pleasurable sexual moments. So don't skimp on the foreplay!
Inquire about your lover's schedule, and ask often how he is doing. Ask if there is anything you can help with. Pack a little note in your lover's briefcase, purse, or lunch pail to be found during the day. Hint at a secret meeting later that evening. Tease a little. Touch each other often.
Of course, the standard things work well, too: flowers, dinner out, a movie, a gift — all are usually welcomed and appreciated. But those things aren't nearly as important as the little remembrances that don't cost much. When you can offer help and assistance, that is foreplay. When you say “I love you” in many different ways — you are having foreplay. And these things are not just for men to do and for women to receive. They are important for both sexes.
