There are a lot of toys and other sexual aids that can be very useful during sex. If you haven't tried some of these products, talk with your partner about purchasing the ones that intrigue the two of you. If you are single, you're sure to find something on this list that titillates you.

Vibrators

Vibrators are excellent for women who need help learning to orgasm. If a woman has been frustrated with her capacity to have orgasms, using a vibrator can open the door to that experience. Start with a small one designed for clitoral stimulation.

Some women like vibrators, while others prefer dildos, which are used inside the vagina. You can also purchase a vibrating dildo. You may need to explore a few to discover what works for you. Each type has a specific purpose.

If you have a partner, talk to him about going to an adult store to look over the selection. Be sensitive to your lover's feelings about this. He may have feelings of inadequacy at not being the lover you want him to be. Reassure him that you only want to add to the repertoire of your adventures in bed.

Vibrators do have a downside — they can be addictive and desensitizing. Your lover may find that you are having a harder time reaching orgasm when he is giving you oral stimulation, if you have been using the vibrator a lot. Pay attention and modify its use if this seems to be a problem. Vibrators can be great to use during intercourse to stimulate the woman's clitoris. Either partner can hold it and add to the pleasure.

Men may have an interest in some of the sensations a vibrator has to offer. Try the small clitoral vibrators on the perineum during intercourse or while giving him oral sex. This is healthy stimulation and exercise for the prostate gland, too. It may stimulate more sexual excitement or may defocus the intensity, which helps to delay orgasm and ejaculation in men.

Dildos

Dildos come in all shapes, sizes, materials, and forms. There are combinations for stimulating the clitoris and for insertion into the vagina; there are ones just for the vagina; there are anal plugs for anal stimulation; and there are combinations for vagina and anus. Some will be battery-operated vibrators, and some will be without vibration. And in each of these categories there are literally hundreds of varieties.

There are so many options to choose from. Go to a well-equipped website or adult store when you make your first purchases. Websites are great to browse and order from because they offer privacy and ease.

Condoms and Gloves

Condoms, gloves, and other latex products can be fun to use, even for committed, monogamous couples who are free of sexually transmitted diseases. Even if you are in a long-term relationship and can safely have unprotected sex, try using a condom once in a while. They may fit into sexual fantasies for you or just be fun to try. The same goes for gloves. The use of latex gloves adds a fantasy dimension to lovemaking and they work very well for anal stimulation for both men and women. They can take the edge off trying these things if you are new to this kind of sexual exploring.