Negotiating Scary Situations
Fears and phobias are common behavior problems that are difficult to cure. Some dogs have a not-so-great start in life. Though you may never cure your dog completely from overreacting to loud noises or novel objects, you can still help him by managing and training him.
One thing that really helps any dog get over his fears is the ability to target an object with his nose. If a dog knows how to target, his confidence level will go way up, and you will have a great tool for getting him through a sticky situation. If he spooks upon seeing a bicycle leaning against a fence, for instance, you can have him target your hand right up to the bicycle until he is eventually touching the bicycle when you ask him to “Touch.” The added benefit of receiving a yummy reward for bravery is a great confidence booster. Soon you will find that because he knows how to target, he is recovering from his fears sooner than ever. If you have a dog that tends to spook at anything novel, you have a bit of a project cut out for you in building his confidence. See Chapter 7 for a more detailed explanation of teaching targeting skills to your Golden.
If your dog is feeling afraid, it does no good to punish him or try to reassure him. Punishment will have the effect of making him more afraid, while trying to reassure him may have the effect of accidentally reinforcing the fearful behavior.
Teaching your dog to be more confident is an ongoing process. Set a clear, simple goal for each session and end on a positive note. It's best to train when he is hungry and to use his favorite treats. Keep sessions very short. Pick out different objects that might be likely to make him spook — start out at a distance from these things, then move progressively closer. Don't try to force your Golden, and let him move at his own pace.
You will find that if you work at it, scared dogs will develop more confidence. They will develop better exploring skills on their own than they will if you try to force them to meet or greet new things. Giving your dog the tools he needs to cope with his environment will not only increase the quality of his life, it will make him a better companion as well.

