Your New Wife versus Your Daughter
Why Can't They Just Get Along?
There's not a harder situation in the world to be in than the one that puts you in the middle of your new wife and your little princess. You love 'em both, so why can't they just learn to love each other? (Heck, you'd settle for them
The fact of the matter is, you and your ex-wife have your own issues that have either been worked out by this point or have been left to fester. Your daughter has been affected by your divorce in one way or another, whether she admits it or not, and depending on the circumstances involved, may have chosen a side by this point. If she chose your ex-wife's side, she's probably acting out against
There are some women who simply don't like each other. It could be that your daughter and your wife are on opposing sides of every issue, regardless of its importance in the greater scheme of life.
Then there are always the kids who, even as adults, see no reason why their divorced parents shouldn't get back together, and view any new spouse as an intruder who's just mucking things up. So many issues! So little you can do about them!
Your Role Here
You can't force your daughter and your wife to like each other. What you do have a right to insist on, in this case, and especially if you're paying for the wedding, is that your daughter