Your Dog and Divorce
It is simply not fair that dogs become casualties in divorce situations, yet it happens so often! Why? Because there is so much else to take care of, and often someone is forced to move, frequently to places that may not take dogs. The truth, though, is that your dog can help you heal from divorce possibly better than any other person or animal in your life at the time. Dogs are forgiving, generous, honest, present, and comforting. A dog can give you a purpose when you may feel lost and all alone — she may be the only one you have to care for when the dust settles, and though you might find it an imposition at first, you'll be thankful for it in time.
It is often difficult for children to understand and accept their parents' divorce. If there is a lot of arguing in the household, a dog can quickly become a child's source of solace and safety. The dog may be the only family member the child truly trusts, and separation from the dog can be another major blow to a child of divorce. Parents are wise to do all they can to maintain the connection of the child to the dog even if it complicates matters.
Managing to keep your dog through a divorce may mean asking a relative or friend to care for her for a while. It may mean moving in with someone you don't want to move in with until you can find a place that accepts both you and your dog. It may mean hiring a dog walker because you have to work especially long hours. You may even feel you're not being fair to your dog, but what are your options? If you think surrendering her to a shelter or rescue will be better for her in the long run, visit a shelter or call a rescue organization and talk to them to see if it is a feasible option.
