How and Where to Socialize
Take your puppy as many places as possible so he becomes a savvy traveler who is accustomed to elevators, stairways, manholes, and grates. Acclimate him to walking on a variety of surfaces such as gravel, wire, sand, cobblestone, linoleum, and brick. Because some dogs prefer to eliminate only in their own backyard, teach him to eliminate on command in different areas, so weekend trips and the like won't be a problem. If you want to foster enjoyment of the water and your dog isn't a natural pond puppy, walk him on-leash on the shoreline. Once he is at ease with that, venture into the water. Gently tighten the leash as you go, encouraging him to swim a couple of feet before you let him return to the shoreline. Never throw any dog into the water.
Let her get to know other animals — dogs, cats, chickens, horses, goats, birds, guinea pigs, and lizards. Often, upon meeting a new species, a puppy is startled, then curious, and some become bold or aggressive. For her own protection and for the protection of the other animal, always keep her leashed so you can control her distance and stop unwanted behaviors by enforcing obedience commands.
Be Prepared
Whatever you are socializing your puppy to — animals, objects, or people — approach in a relaxed manner and avoid any situation that would intimidate the average puppy, such as a group of grade-schoolers rushing at him. Be prepared for three reactions: walking up to check it out and sniff, apprehensive barking with hackles raised, or running away. No matter his response, remain silent. In the first — and by the way, best — scenario, he is thinking rationally and investigating his environment. Don't draw attention to yourself by talking, praising, or petting. Allow him to explore uninterrupted. This good boy is entertaining himself and being educated at the same time.
If your puppy lacks confidence or displays fear, don't console him, because this will reinforce his fear. Use the leash to prevent him from running away. If he is still slightly uncomfortable, drop some tasty bits of food (such as slivers of hot dogs) on the ground. Most puppies will relax after a nibble or two because the uncomfortable situation has been positively associated with food.
Things That Go Bump
If loud noises frighten your puppy, desensitize her by allowing her to create a racket. Offer her a big metal spoon with a little peanut butter on it. Give her an empty milk jug with the cap removed and a bit of squeeze cheese in the rim to bat around. It won't be long before she is creating hubbub and loving it. Of course, if the clamoring drives you nuts, feel free to limit her playtime with these items.
