When it comes down to giving people the nod to be included in your wedding as bridesmaids and groomsmen, you have to ask yourself two significant questions. First, if you're considering someone other than a family member, is this person someone you want to know (or want to remember knowing) for the rest of your life? And second, will this person live up to his or her duties or only make your life more stressful by having a role in your ceremony? This chapter attempts to lead you toward the good candidates and steer you away from the less-than-worthy.