There are numerous traits that researchers have identified that can result in higher levels of bullying behavior. Keep an eye out for these types of traits:

• Lack of empathy or compassion for others' feelings

• Needs to be in control

• Easily frustrated

• Underdeveloped social and interpersonal skills

• Quick to place blame for her actions on others

• Has a need to win or to be the best at everything

• Seems to derive pleasure from the pain and suffering of others

• Shows little or no remorse for negative behavior

• Misinterprets others' intentions as hostile or aggressive

• Attacks before someone can attack her

• Disregards most rules

• Seeks both positive and negative attention

• Hangs around with kids who are considered to be a bad influence

• Likes to hurt or injure pets

• Parents are overly punitive or overly permissive

• Has been bullied by a peer, sibling, or parent

There are many other traits that might reveal your child's potential for bullying behavior. Each child is different and your child might fit just a few of these traits or she may fit all of them. The best thing to do if you suspect there is a problem is to keep an eye on your child's interactions with other children.

Watch how she relates to adults and peers, and try to figure out the situations that might cause the most trouble. Talk with your child's teachers and the principal. Ask them what their observations are and what areas your child needs to work on. Talk with the parents of your child's friends. Ask them if they have seen bullying behavior and, if so, what would they do if it were their child?

Read some books on bullying and go online to see what type of information is available for the parents of a child who bullies other children. The more you educate yourself, the better equipped you will be to help your child.