Even very young toddlers are known to say “please” and “thank you.” They seem to learn early on that using these magic words will help to get them what they want. If you wish to instill good manners in your child at an even earlier age, model the signs. These are good concept signs to introduce early because they are simple to form and are familiar in their meanings. Be patient with your baby, though, and remember that children of all ages occasionally need to be reminded to use their manners.

PLEASE

The sign for PLEASE is a simple one but is perhaps best demonstrated through example.

• 1. Place your hand flat against your chest, as shown in Figure 17–4 .

• 2. Move your hand around in a circular motion.

The original intent of this sign was to express pleasure, as in “I am pleased to hear you say that.” Now, though, the sign has gained widespread use in the Deaf community as a sign of politeness when making a request, as in, “Will you please do this for me?”

Even if the other members of your household don’t sign with your baby, try to get them on board with this sign. If your baby sees others signing PLEASE when making their requests, she will begin to understand the connection between a request and the sign. Likewise, if you ask your baby to do something or hand you something, be sure to sign PLEASE to her, as well.

THANK YOU

The sign for THANK YOU looks as if you are blowing a kiss.

• 1. Bring the tips of your fingers to your lips, as shown in Figure 17–5 .

• 2. Extend your palm out flat, as shown in Figure 17–6 .

There are plenty of opportunities to model this sign. Every time your child gives you something or does something helpful, exclaim, “Thank you!” and form the sign. Then try giving something back to her and look at her expectantly, as if waiting for her to do something. If she does not form the sign, simply demonstrate it for her again. It will take time, but she will eventually understand the concept.